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Every human being wants to be loved and to be loving, wants to achieve, to do or create something special, to bring wisdom and knowing into the world, to create a safer and friendlier environment, to enjoy life and inspire others to do the same, to be self-reliant, to bring peace to the world and to do what's right! Every human being wants all of these, but is predominantly driven by one of them. One of these nine drives is part of who we are. (Enneagram)

So many in the world have lost their true nature. Beliefs and Choices, the most powerful tools of creation and manifestation have been handed to us by family, schools, society and religious beliefs. We have bought into them. Look at the world we live in, a world of chaos, pain and struggle; a world in victim consciousness. As we understand ourselves more and change our beliefs and consciously make new choices, our reality changes.

Beliefs create attitudes. One of the most dis -empowering attitudes is to blame others or situations (such as weather) for our unhappiness or dilemmas. We can never change our reality when we see others as a cause of our problems. The mental judgments trigger emotional responses that immediately make us the victim. As a victim, we cannot do anything about the situation. We are at the mercy of the other person or situation, and nothing changes until they do. However, if we can see the situation for what it is, allow ourselves to feel the constricting emotions (but not stay there), and then look for solutions, we are immediately in a position of power and strength. As we change, so does our reality.

As long as it is the fault of someone else, we are suffering mentally and emotionally. The more we become observers of our reality, the more we can make wise choices and by our very presence make a positive difference in this world.

What happens - happens! We experience it, feel it, heal it and move on, without dragging the baggage of our history. Many physical illnesses are stored in our body, in the organs and tissues. Over the many years of working with clients, I have seen long term pain leave as soon as the emotional and mental pain was handled.

As each and every one of us heals our personal history, our attitudes change about ourselves, others and the world. We become more compassionate, caring and forgiving. We are more connected with our spirituality , recognizing that we can co-create with our seen and unseen friends a different kind of world.

We can use our personality drive (enneagram) in its elevated and integrated form to be the best that we can be and live a life that reflects who we really are, inspiring others to do the same.

Holistique - please submit any questions or comments to:  shakti1@rogers.com